Making Remarriage happy

For many people having remarriage can be fun but for many it’s like a failure of the first marriage and they will leave constantly on fear whether their second will work or not. But person who is getting remarried can make it funny and successful by using some technique and should be well prepared for it. To have healthy and happy remarriage you need to develop some skills.

Somehow, remarriage can be tough as your mind be on your first marriage failure. So to avoid this there are five ways to make your second marriage successful:

1) Remarriage always brings load of tension and other problem from the first marriage. A couple who get divorced is more hurt and can bring out all the frustration in the second one. If the first spouse is dead then all the grief and sorrow will come along to the second marriage. So to have great remarriage you should throw all the past sorrow and anger along with the divorce. Combine both awareness and acceptance which help you to heal.

2) Second marriage will always bring children along with from the first. These can also create some problem as they will take time to accept their new parent, but some will never accept. Parenting is the biggest challenge that any parents goes through. But sometime it can also be fun to. Make them involve in the discussion so that you can come to know, what they exactly want from their new dad/mom.

3) Your ex-spouse can play as an obstacle to your second marriage. There might some unsolved matters from your first marriage. Your ex-spouse may even file a law suit against you and even they demand some money from you. So not to get all these trouble after having second marriage make sure you complete all the formalities. Do everything so that you can diffuse your anger on ex-spouse. Allow your spouse to think about the mistakes and simple deal what you like and how will you help to have your second marriage successful

4) Focus only on your second marriage. Leave all your memories of your first marriage behind and move on. When you got married for the first, you had set a benchmark in your mind. If you couldn’t succeed in the first one then try to succeed in second one.

Having second marriage is somewhat challenging because there are lot compromises and situation which you have to adjust to have successful second marriage. Indian second marriage is quite difficult to carry on because the peer pressure from society. In India, people with orthodox thinking don’t allow a girl to remarry if her first husband and keep her widowed for whole life.

So it is important to prepare yourself well before your second marriage so that you won’t feel any pinch after getting married. Many people change self so that the second marriage doesn’t end in middle. So be prepared mentally, physically and socially to carry out with your second marriage successfully.